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Ok

2010-10-11T17:14:00.000-07:00

Just to let all of you know... I will be shutting down this blog. You can catch me on my new blog, Rakish Dishevelment. www.rakishdishevelment.blogspot.com

You Should Want These.

2010-10-10T20:25:00.000-07:00

Men, you should want these... The rich color basically makes any outfit and they stand out nicely from beneath your slim dark jeans. Who needs statement socks when your shoes can do all the talking for you?

And then you should want to buy these for her...

I mean, what doesn't say I love you like a pair of new sexy 150mm heels? Plus, the tortoise shell look is dark enough for winter, but could easily be paired with a breezy dress for a hot summer night out... of course then you might want to get her some tortoise shell sunglasses to match.

Final Verdict: Try something different this fall in your shoe department... you might be surprised at all the compliments you get.

Checkmate.

2010-10-10T14:01:00.000-07:00

Plaids. Unless you are living under a rock you have most likely noticed that plaids are everywhere. Everyone from Jason Wu to Forever 21 is sporting the checks of the season. I can just imagine the offices of Ralph Lauren, Burberry, and Brooks Brothers whispering "I told you so" while cranking out variations that they have been doing for years.

One of the most noticeable types this season is actually the buffalo check. This could be due to the resurgence in the old war horse manufactures like Pendleton, Woolrich, and the like. While this red and black fabric (yes it does not always have to be red and black... it just happens to be the most recognizable form of it) is enjoying the limelight, I caution you from picking up every piece that catches your eye. I can easily see this distinct print becoming a "is" that is relegated to a "was" by the season end. However, plaids in general, I think, are a good investment... they remind me of the spring ginghams but for fall. No matter how crazy fashion gets, it often comes back to the classic pieces and "plaid" is totally in the folds of that staple love blanket. When shopping around I encourage you to find pieces that fit your body... and then that flatter your skin tone. Newsflash... bright, bold checks may not look as amazing on you as they do on the 21 year old model you see wearing it.

Final verdict: keep your eyes out for pieces that may be made out of the plaid fabric but remember that you aren't limited to just a button-down shirt.

Back Like Bedbugs in NYC!

2010-10-10T13:30:00.000-07:00

After a break from all writing, I am back and boy-OH-boy do I have a lot of things on my mind. We will be discussing all of the current trends... and a few that I was conversationally absent for their infant steps, but are still alive and kicking today. I will also be giving you my thinking on some upcoming themes, and more than likely tear some to pieces with my razor sharp wit and vicious rhetoric. Final Verdict: You'll like it.

On a side note: If you notice that a lot of my former post pics aren't working, it is because my old revamp blog was shut down along with the pics were linked to that site. Fear not for I will have all kinds of new sexiness for you to see.

Wrap it, Stuff it, Wear it

2008-11-08T14:45:00.000-08:00

As most of you have probably started to notice (except maybe you southerners), the air is getting colder and colder. The t-shirt evolved into the sweater which then, in turn, brought along his friend, the coat. I'm sure everyone wishes that they could purchase a new coat each season (or several coats for that matter) but, if you are like me, you can't afford to indulge that urge. "How can I spice up my fall/winter outerwear get-up without going broke?" you may ask. Well, my loyal reader, let me tell you: with a well-picked scarf.

As noted by comedic writer, Christian Lander, the scarf is an important part of any wardrobe. There are many options and fabrics and styles for this neck accoutrement. Generally, the scarf is an easy way to add a splash of color to your wardrobe, and you shouldn't be afraid to go with bright reds or bold rugby stripes. Even if you are a seasoned adult, you can return to your prime by picking one up with embroidered collegiate styling. This trend is a favorite of mine and makes a perfect gift for that natty dresser on your Christmas list.

In order to get a fantastic scarf, you don't need to spend a lot of money. I have several fashionable styles that were purchased for under $20. Recently, my wife purchased me a collegiate cable-knit angora and wool scarf from Forever 21 that is just fabulous. Angora, as you may know, is a soft hair that comes from the Angora rabbit or goat. One thing to keep in mind when purchasing angora is that it has a tendency to shed. Because of this, I would recommend staying away from 100% angora unless it is from a well-respected brand (higher quality does reduce shedding). Another fabric that you want to watch (as far as quality goes) is wool. Since scarves are worn around the neck and against soft skin, you don't want this wrap to consist of coarse or itchy fibers. Giving your loved one a wool scarf is like giving them a carnation to say “I love you”. If you really want to mean it, you should splurge for the red rose of the scarf world: cashmere. Cashmere is just like the perfect girlfriend: beautiful, elegant, makes all your friends envious, looks great dressed up or down, and not too clingy.

Final verdict: try some new styles this season and look for new ways to tie it around your neck.

One, Two, Three, Four...

2008-10-25T16:36:00.000-07:00

Over the last several years, the interest in dance has erupted. Each week, millions of viewers tune in to see if their favorite celebrity or no-name hero will make the cut and continue on to the next week. Not only has this blossomed in the television industry, but it has increased in the movie world as well. Movies like Take the Lead, Shall We Dance, and even Step Up 2: The Streets have further fanned this explosive social need.

Having had formal dance instruction (and instructed), I would full-heartedly encourage each and every one of you to get out and get some dance training. Why, you may ask? I shall give you several reasons:

Not only does dance teach one to move with the rhythm, but it also teaches many things that are applicable in your day-to-day routine; things like grace, poise, and a mental confidence that you can dance better than most people you pass on the street.
Have you ever been to a wedding/party and watched a couple that turns the head of everyone and makes them turn green with envy at the same time? Imagine if that was you.
As a male, the ability to lead is SO key. Not only does that help with dancing, but it will allow you to command the dance floor and sweep any woman off her feet... even if that woman is your wife. Dancing casts an amazing spell when it comes to attraction. Even the ho-hum wallflowers become Alpha-Male if they can spin the dance floor in their favor.

Now there are many different kinds of dance to take and they all are wonderful, but I would encourage each of you to try ballroom. Even after your joints have started to tell you that you can't sprint a 40 in under 4.6 seconds, you will be able to utilize this skill. I am a firm believer that every woman (deep down) wishes for her Prince Charming... and if you just happen to be able to do that coveted Viennese Waltz, then it puts you that much closer.

Final Verdict: If you are already in a relationship, nothing spices up the romance like taking a class together... you end up with bruised knees and sore toes, but also a renewed passion that chocolates and flowers can't buy. If you are single... there is nothing that a woman would love more than for you to ask her to take dance classes... think about it.

Snowblindness

2008-10-25T16:34:00.000-07:00

As the autumnal air rolls in and the leaves turn to brown you may be tempted to pack away an important accessory until the thaw of spring. What accessory is that, you may ask? The sandal? Ummm no. The cutoff jean mini-skirt? Wrong again. How about I just tell you? The correct answer is none other than sunglasses.

An often overlooked fall/winter accessory is the perfect pair of sunglasses. The important thing to remember when selecting your cold-weather shades is that the frames should be plastic. Your standard metal aviators need to take a back seat because you don't want them freezing to your face. Have you ever put your tongue on a cold piece of metal? Same idea, but picture that metal stuck to your face. The plastic frames will maintain a pleasant temperature while still shielding your eyes from the sun... bright daylight on fresh snow can be quite blinding. Final verdict: if you don't own a pair of plastic-framed sun-shields, look into getting them. Designer sunglasses are great, but if you're like me and lose/break sunglasses just look for a knockoff pair. My favorite pair are from American Eagle.

Sleek and Sexy

2008-10-17T17:29:00.001-07:00

A common complaint that I’ve had over the years has been that any dress shirt I bought seemed to be baggy. There were few things I hated more than seeing my shirt “blouse-out” around my waist and give me the appearance of weighing 20 pounds more than I did. I would look at the designer shirts, but was just discouraged to find that a slim-cut designer shirt started at the $200 mark… and even then it would still be “off the rack”. Then, about 15 months ago, I discovered the Brooks Brothers made-to-measure and my world changed forever. Hands down, it is the best deal out on the market.

To begin the process, check out the closest retail Brooks Brothers store (factory stores do not have M2M). Unless they are having a slow day, you may have to set up an appointment to get your initial fitting. The measurements take about 45 minutes while you fine-tune the fit that you want. If you are like me, explain to the specialist that you want a very slim waistline to minimize blousing. The more you explain what you are looking for, the more accurately he can tweak the numbers. Once you have the measurements, you can begin the shopping portion. They have a broad variety of fabrics ranging from the opening-price-point of $150 clear up to over $390 for rare sea-island cotton. After the fabric has been selected, you chose every styling detail possible… cuff, collar (over 10 styles available), placket, and pleating. At the end of the process you have a shirt that is completely customized to your body and tastes… down to even one cuff being larger than the other to account for your watch. Then, in just a few short weeks, you will receive a call to come and pick up your glorious shirt.

Now you may say that $150 is a lot of money and I would totally agree, but it is well worth it. First, I would recommend getting your shirt(s) during one of the Friends & Family or Made-to-Measure sales. That way you will save upwards of 25% off your entire order… which brings the price down to $112.50 a shirt. Secondly, if you pick a regular-finish fabric (anything but non-iron) and take care of the shirt, you can get a solid 10 years out of the shirt. That’s only $12 a year, or 3 cents a day! It’ll be more likely that you’ll outgrow the shirt before it runs out. Thirdly, a perfectly tailored shirt makes an amazing impression. I can’t count the number of compliments or comments I’ve gotten from wearing my made-to-measures. You even carry yourself better because you just know that the shirt looks great. Finally, the cost is only a fraction of what it would be to get an off-the-rack shirt from a designer like Ralph Lauren Black Label (which runs about $230)… just think if we started talking Armani or Tom Ford.

Final verdict: get out and try just one and I promise you’ll never look back. On a side note: stay away from the non-iron fabric just for the simple fact that it doesn’t breathe well and with the shirt being so fitted, you may overheat.

Lucky Charm: not the cereal.

2008-10-11T15:43:00.001-07:00

How many times have you gone out and seen someone that was perfectly dressed but then have your initial opinions of them shattered when they talk? While being well-dressed is great, the most important accessory that you can bring to the table is your personality... and more specifically, your charm. Remember to always be on your best behavior, and it never hurts to brush up on the habits of a modern-day gentleman. Your clothes may catch the crowd's eye initially, but your bewitching allure will keep them interested late into the night. Final verdict: always remember to treat women like royalty and treat other men like your friends, even if they are incorrigible. You want your charm to linger after you've left... like the last bite of a perfect dessert.

The Rabbit Goes Around the Tree and then What?

2008-10-10T22:18:00.001-07:00

As I was riding the subway home today I was wondering what else I could write about. I thought that maybe writer's block was going to take over, but all I needed was the poorly dressed pedestrians standing around me to give me motivation. The topic this time: tie length and knot style.

If you are a normal male that wears a tie, chances are that you know one knot. And that knot was most likely the one that your father (or other adult figure... or college roommate) taught you to tie when you finally needed to learn. There are, actually, several styles of knots to tie depending on the look you are going for and the collar style on the dress shirt. Here are some general tie rules and guidelines.

Learn at least the 3 basic knots (The four-in-hand, the half-windsor and the windsor) These knots can be learned from a variety of websites or books.
The bigger the knot, the wider the collar on the shirt should be (i.e. don't wear a windsor knot with a button-down collar).
Keep in mind the material and thickness of the tie that you are using. A thin vintage tie creates a much smaller knot than a 7-fold silk tie. You may have to change tactics after a couple tries if you can't get it to work.
Please, please, please take into consideration the dimple of the tie. The single dimple is the most classic but remember to keep it centered. The key is to start the dimple before you cinch the knot closed. In my opinion, the only other acceptable dimple variation is the double dimple... or what the Italians refer to as "la sorchetta." Once again, remember to center.
While your girlfriend or wife might think it's fun to tie your tie for you, don't let her do it. It just makes you look childlike. If she's offended, tell her that they are much more fun to take off.

Having just given more rules than you thought possible, let's not forget the second part of this post: tie length. If I see someone with a tie that is too long or too short I immediately assume that they are lazy. Lazy, you say? Why lazy? Well, my reader, a perfectly tied tie takes a few tries... so if they didn't bother to keep trying then they are just lazy. The key is to get the tip of the tie within the "perfect zone". Ideally, the left and right corners of the tie should just brush the top of the belt when you are standing straight with your shoulders back.

The only other acceptable way is to have the center tip touch the top part of the belt buckle.... thus making the tie a little shorter. On a final note, if wearing a sweater or vest, you may tie your tie shorter so that it doesn't peek out from under the top garment. Final verdict: these little tweaks may not seem like much, but they can instantly supercharge your style. It's the subtle things that set the truly fashionable apart from the aspiring.

P.S. - for the love of all that is good, do NOT tie neckwear and then leave it tied just so you can slip it on and off over your head. This damages the construction and will eventually leave permanent creases.

The Dark Night

2008-10-09T21:40:00.001-07:00

Night. Darkness. There is just something enticing about the late evening. Why has the night scene always been so seductive and why does it seem that some places "come to life" at night? My guess: evening allows one to become somebody that they can't be during the day. Think about all those co-workers you work with that seem to be dull and lifeless but if seen late evening are like an entirely different person. One reason for this change may be that we can step back and allow the shadows to envelope us, thus allowing our personality to shine. During the daytime many of us are self-conscious, but slipping into the night's embrace emboldens us with new confidence. The little voice in our head that says "they'd like you if they only got to know you" gains new strength and suddenly you are able to enjoy yourself free from the eyes of the world.

Another reason, I think, why midnight's siren call awakens a stirring in us is because at times it can seem as if the world has stopped just for us. Think about the crazy speed and pace of your day-to-day life... and how different it can seem in the wee hours of the morning (provided you aren't tossing and turning in bed). Throughout my life I have loved staying up until the world begins to go to bed. A late night walk can be so relaxing and you can hear yourself think without worrying about being interrupted (unless of course you have friends in other time zones... like say you lived in NYC and you had friends in ummm Oregon). Final verdict: if you aren't the type to usually stay up, try it with a friend or spouse and you might be surprised how much you enjoy it.

The Glorified Scruff

2008-10-09T21:13:00.000-07:00

If you've watched any show on tv recently or have seen pretty much any fashion ad with a male model you may have noticed that "scruff" is back in fashion. If you haven't noticed that, there might be a chance that you live under a rock. But Grant, you say, I can't grow a beard... in fact I can probably go a week without shaving and only begin to look like a baby peach. If that's your problem then this post probably isn't for you.

Being somewhat of a "babyface" myself, I can only envy those that are able to pull off this uber-manly look. It has a rugged rawness that screams "I am man" but at the same time "I can still take care of myself." This has become a blessing for all those men that work in offices and daydream about surviving off the land somewhere in Montana. Final Verdict: Tom Ford, the sensual demigod of fashion himself, has been sporting this look for quite some time... and that should be reason enough to give it a shot. Pick a long weekend and just try it out and see what you think.

Chunky not always a bad thing.

2008-10-04T16:39:00.000-07:00

Well duh, Grant. What about soup? Ok, you make a valid point. But either you're new, or just really dense. This is a fashion blog: key word being "fashion." Man, some peoples' kids I tell ya. Now where was I?

The chucky sweater has returned from the brink of fashion oblivion and, like the Prodigal Son, has been welcomed back with open arms. Contrary to other areas, the only stipulation for something to be lumped into this category is that it has to be,... well... chunky. Usually done in a wider gauge knit, these sweaters/cardigans/vests harken of a lost era brimming with a rustic charm. Unlike their vintage relatives, these variants opt for a variety of choices instead of the previously favored crewneck. The shawl, cowl, and oversized collars have become the "belles of the ball" this time around, and the new necklines allow for a plethora of layering options. With this in mind, you should add some life to your wardrobe. Break free from your normal routine. What about a long sleeve polo under a shawl neck cardigan, or a graphic long sleeved tee under a v-neck cable sweater vest? A key style fact to remember when incorporating this item, though, is that your other pieces should be fitted. A bulky sweater with baggy pants just makes you look like a hobo.

Not only do these bulky relatives come in a surfiet of neck options, but they also are swimming in old-world color palates. For some reason a lot of these colors are female in gender, and love to go by the name "Heather." No wait! As it turns out, heather is a yarn or fabric color that is subtly flecked or mottled. Heathered gray seems to be the most popular color this year with every designer from Alice & Olivia to Zegna using it. Final verdict: when looking for this garment, try to find one in a cable knit. It looks great, and adds a little more texture to the ensemble.

Not Just Your Father's Coat

2008-10-04T16:04:00.000-07:00

This trendy piece isn't the newest of items, but it is back "in vogue" again. I know you are waiting with bated breath, so I'll just tell you. It's the duffel coat. This coat is made from none other than duffel; a coarse, thick, woollen material. As with many other styles this season, this item originated in Europe and is a traditional British garment. One key defining feature of a duffel coat is that the front must be closed (at least in some part) by front toggle-fastenings which are commonly called "walrus teeth." These toggles were originally used to make the coat easy to fasten and unfasten while wearing gloves... sort of like fashionable velcro. Traditionally these coats were boxy, but the newer variants have a tailored feel and are easier to find for avant-garde women shoppers. Even the high fashion houses, like Dolce & Gabbana, have a rendition of this classic garment. Final verdict: if these coats are properly cared for, they can last many many years and be passed down from generation to generation. Think of it as a several-cycle fashion investment.

P.S. - If you can't figure it out, the female model is the one wearing the duffel coat.

Improve your Image NOW in 2 minutes or less!

2008-10-04T16:03:00.000-07:00

Grant, what's an easy way to instantly improve my look without breaking the bank? Well, avid reader, I have an answer for you. Interestingly enough, your question has stumbled us into one of my top pet peeves: people that dress their body type incorrectly. Wait, that wasn't what I wanted to talk about. Now what did I... OH, Right! What I wanted to talk about was another one of my top irritations: poor posture.

Walking the streets of NYC, I've found that a person with good posture instantly catches my eye. In a society where women slouch their shoulders and men hunch in their chairs, it's no wonder that everyday poise is deteriorating. When I was younger, I used to hunch all the time. Every time I went to my grandparents' house, my grandfather would correct this youthful folly. He constantly told me that the way to instantly impress a lady was to carry yourself in a self-assured manner. This was best conveyed by keeping a straight back and owning a stride that was as graceful as it was commanding. If the idea of propper posture is foreign to you, I suggest watching fashion runway videos. While the models' steps are often overly emphasized, they have the basic concept down. After some practice you may find that the muscles in the middle of your back are sore. This pain is probably earned by the simple act of keeping your shoulders back. Think of this as your body slapping you in the head for letting it get to this point. Final verdict: with a little practice, you can start turning heads with little more than your gait.

The Ivy

2008-10-04T16:02:00.001-07:00

Imagine the afternoon sun peeking out from behind the embrace of a downy white cloud crawling across the sky. The air is crisp and the occasional breeze dances across your exposed skin as you idly stroll down a back country road. The sound of your thoughts mix with the crunching of fallen leaves underneath your feet creating an organic, poetic melody.

Sounds wonderful, right? Of course it does; but not all of us can escape out into the spacious countryside. And when you can't escape, how can you pretend? Well, by wearing an ivy. Now some of you may be wondering what an ivy is, or why you would be wearing an English climbing plant. The ivy also goes by the common name of the "newsie cap". Ringing any bells? This flat cap originated as the headwarmer for the working class, but over the years has gained more of an upper class image. The wonderful thing about this versatile cap is that it creates a casual image while maintaining that sophisticated oneness. The ivy comes in many different fabrics and makes a great addition to any autumnal ensemble. Thrown with jeans, a vest, and an oxford it says, "I'm into relaxing, so let's meet at the pub for merriment and unique music." Combined with an overcoat and silk scarf it speaks volumes in a different direction. Final verdict: this English isle accessory should be a "must" for your closet... and like the Swiss Army knife, the possibilites are endless.

Sweet Prepster Batman!

2008-10-04T15:59:00.000-07:00

Fair Isle is a traditional knitting technique to create patterns with multiple colors. When you see attire done in this style you may instantly think of the 1970s and shag carpet. While this may be correct, it's about that time for things like this to make a comeback. BAM! Enter the Fair Isle sweater, vest, dress... you name it. This style is certainly not for everyone and you have to really own this look. A pair of horn-rimmed or dark-rimmed glasses certainly helps to complete this wearable flair. The fair isle, when worn correctly creates and air of sartorial confidence and quirky humor best garnished with bright smile. Remember that the pattern tend to be very busy, so the other pieces of your "get-up" should let the Fair Isle shine instead of battling for spotlight. I recommend prepping it up with a button-down shirt and some sort of a club tie. One other thing to remember is that it's best to stick to lighter weight fabrics and leave the thick, chunky sweaters for the fishermen. Keep it to the slim-cuts please. Final verdict: you may be able to find some wonderful vintage pieces at thrift stores, but if you're lazy there's always Ralph Lauren.

Layering

2008-10-04T15:26:00.000-07:00

According to Dictionary.com, Layering is defined as "the wearing of lightweight or unconstructed garments one upon the other, as to create a fashionable ensemble or to provide warmth without undue bulkiness or heaviness." Exactly. Basically all you are doing is putting on more than necessary for the sake of fashion, and you know what? I love it.

The key to good layering is to think about the necklines of what you are wearing. If you alter the necklines of what you are wearing you will be able to see the most of what you have on underneath. Most often, the dress shirt is the bottom layer (with the exception of a t-shirt if you want to show a crew neck collar). This creates the height around the neck area and with a dress shirt being buttoned up the middle it will fall to either side if not fastened. This then works wonders when worn under a v-neck sweater or a vest of some sort. To top it all off you can throw a blazer or jacket over it all and complete the rule of 3. This is a little rule I follow when layering during the Autumn/Winter fashion season. The rule basically states that a properly layered outfit must be at least 3 layers deep (and a tie can count as a layer).

The wonderful part about layering is that the last layer doesn't HAVE to be the longest or most visible. Let's take Mr. Model up on the right... I want to call him Ian. As you can see, Ian used the "puffer vest" as the last item but still creates that wonderful "bundled" look. Another thing you may notice in the pictures I have supplied is the glorious use of cold-weather accessories. While not a layering item, they dovetail perfectly with the look we are creating. Hats, gloves, and scarves can help to flush out the total ensemble or add a much needed splash of color to a drab outfit. This being said, keep in mind where your color "pops" are going to draw the human eye. Model number 1 (with her entire styling team) has done a perfect job of drawing your eyes instantly to the neckline and then secondly down to the hands. You wouldn't want someone to be staring at your shoes and then your belt-line, now would you? Final verdict: go to the closet and try stacking up your pieces in new and fresh ways to get that extra mile out of your "last season" gear.

Wish you went to Oxford? Yeah, me too.

2008-10-04T15:25:00.000-07:00

Harvard, Oxford, Yale... what do all these have in common? Yep! I couldn't afford them. Oh wait, that wasn't the point I was trying to make. What was my point again?... Right! Collegiate style! You're so smart.

Trends come and go, but the style of the uber elite "old money" families seems to stay the same. Basically everything comes from the aristocratic style of the English countryside with the earth tones and bow ties all thrown together with a haphazard air of going out for a "quick jaunt." Honestly, who plays a friendly game of touch football in a bow tie, sweater vest, and $800 blazer? Oh, right... the uber elite.

Lately, this gorgeous style of sophistication and leisure has begun to creep into the trends of the season. You can see more and more items with crest patches and ornate stitching which bring you back to that "old world charm". If you had to pick one designer that seems to hit the nail on the head, who would you say? No silly, not Gucci... the correct answer is none other than the mastermind himself, Ralph Lauren. Recently, Ralph has started to open free-standing shops for their Ivy League casual line, Rugby. I absolutely love this line. It has the refinement of aristocracy with that half-cocked-tie casualness. It says, "Hey, I'm all about business and the finer things in life, but I dress for comfort and I'd love to sit outside and chat with you over hot cider." Ok, maybe it doesn't say all that, but it makes a distinct statement about the wearer. Final Verdict: start out with an item or two paired with structured pieces; it'll give you a whole new way to pull together your existing wardrobe.

Trim and Roll

2008-10-04T15:23:00.001-07:00

Once again, here I come bringing my take on some up and coming styles with some frank and honest opinions. I'd like to take this opportunity to talk about 2 fall (and spring) trends that are sure to give your wardrobe that extra little "umph".

The first trend/fashion statement that I'd like to delve into is the re-emergence of "braces" (or for the lay person: "suspenders"). These come in many different colors, widths, and modes to fasten them to your clothing. As a general rule, braces that fasten with buttons are for more formal attire and ones that clip on are for your every day outfits. While getting buttons sewn into your favorite jeans may make you "original"... it'll also make you wonder what in the heck you were doing when you fast forward 2 years. A black thin pair of clip-on braces would make a great addition to any casual outfit (and that goes for you too ladies). For you fashion mavens out there, the Rag & Bone Spring '09 show was littered with these little trim accessories for both sexes and looked classic yet edgy. Fans of the tv show House M.D. may remember that the gorgeous "thirteen" (played by actress Olivia Wilde) sports these pant holder-uppers in several of the episodes. Final verdict: for a couple extra bucks you can add a million dollar bump to an already almost perfect outfit.

Secondly, lets tackle the ever-popular love of the shawl collar. Now the shawl collar has been around for quite some time, but lately it seems to be the cranberry of the fashion world... it gets with everything. The thing that I love about this neckline is that it tends to work with almost any build, so there's a pretty good chance that you'd look good in it. Lately my real interest in this collar is in the formal and cardigan departments. There have been some amazing tuxes out this season with the noble roll. The soft curve of the fabric around the neck is not as sharp as a peak or notch lapel and the height around the back helps to frame the shoulders. It also makes for a slightly different look that is still just as stunning. In the cardigan world it helps to add some flair for those that think a cardigan is too "old man". The heavier top section makes it chuncky enough to wear alone or you could just as easily throw it under a blazer for a "Harvard Athletic Club" look if you're into that kind of thing. Which I am. Just kidding. But seriously, I love it. A shawl collar is great for the guy (or girl) that is looking to minimize the size of their neck without appearing to do so. Final verdict: try one out... you might be surprised at how much you like it.

Fall Fashion Week

2008-10-04T15:21:00.000-07:00

This weekend begins Fashion Week yet again in the Big Apple, which is a busy time full of A-list celebs, top rated models, and a peek into the styles for next season. While this is all great for the people that can actually get tickets, you almost stop and ask yourself; "what's the hurry?" Personally, I happen to LOVE fall fashion. Not only because of the rich earth tones and autumnal highlights, but because of everything it represents. The air is starting to cool and the leaves are beginning to change their colors and in the matter or weeks the scenery goes from 2-season-green to an explosion of reds, yellows, and oranges before the final bow into brown. Finally, I have a reason to layer up and enjoy the walk to work without sweating through my summer suit... and come on, who doesn't love a good glass of cider?

Now for the helpful tips in case you missed Fashion Week last spring. Here's what you should be looking for:

Vests, vests, vests... whether that be the sweater version, the suit style or outerwear
Tweeds but now in lighter fabric options so you don't burn up while inside
Surprisingly, fur trimmed items... although not all designers will have these
Collegiate styling. I mean, just look at Ralph Lauren's fall ad campaign! I love it!
For women: the bubble skirt is back. Last spring Max Azria had tons in his show
Also for women: the long sweater or sweater cardigan...
The 3 piece suit with pocket square. If you're going to go 3 piece, make sure you have the propper styling accessories. Check Brooks Brothers or Paul Stuart for great colors.

Hopefully these little tips will help you enjoy the beginnings of fall while looking simply "smashing".

Back in Black... and White

2007-02-24T17:41:00.001-08:00

Preface: This post isn't supposed to be anything amazing. Oh, and I'm aware that this is a color picture.

Act I: While I've been up in NYC, I've had time to think about things that I like and things that I don't. One of the items as of late that is been on the forefront of my mind is advertising. The more I think about it, the more I appreciate a good advertisement. Truly good advertising is more that just propaganda. It moves into the realm of art. The photography is amazing in some of the magazines that I flip through. One company that has a very well done advertising campaign is Ralph Lauren. It is why the brand, started by a former Brooks Brothers employee, has become a true Global Lifestyle Brand or GLB. As I probably have said in times before, fashion is no necessary. So, in order to get continual sales, you must play to the human emotional center. Lucky for us, this borders on the dream center. In fact Mrs. Dream often comes over to Mrs. Emotional's house to borrow a cup of sugar and chat about the brooding weather over in depression county.

What Kind of Beer does a Dwarf Drink?

2006-11-24T17:00:00.000-08:00

Stouts of course! As of late I have subtly shifted my taste in beer from the brown nutty ales and light pilsners to the dark side of the spectrum. Now I find that my palate craves the earthy, complex tones of the darker beers. As is usually the case, I strive to find the best wherever I am, so NYC is no exception to the rule. Through my tastings, I have found two stouts that stand out thus far.

First on the plate we have the pricey, yet worth-it beer from Tadcaster, England: Samuel Smith. The Samuel Smith brewing company has been around since 1758 and is still going strong today... as it very well should be. The beer that has peaked my interest from this age-old establishment is their Oatmeal Stout. Their oatmeal stout is so silky smooth you'd swear you were drinking liquid silk. The espresso taste is perfectly balanced with a bittersweet finish that can't help but bring a smile to your face. The only thing that is a downside to this wonderful beer is the nasty dent that it can put in your wallet... but then again, life's too short to drink cheap beer.

Second up on the list we have one hailing from nearby at the Brooklyn Brewery. Unlike my usual beer choices, this is a local beer... but it certainly has earned respect in my book. What, may you ask, do they have to offer? Thus far, I have been thoroughly impressed by their Black Chocolate Stout. This beer is from the Imperial Stout family and boasts an astonishingly high 10.1% ABV. The taste is much more complex than that of the Samuel Smith Oatmeal Stout. As you drink it you can almost taste hints of chocolate in a darkened wheat. The Imperial stout used to be brewed exclusively for Catherine the Great, but has since been passed on to the likes of myself. I highly recommend this style...especially for an after dinner finish. Final Verdict: get out and try these two fabulous stouts... if you can handle them.

The Little Black Dress

2006-10-03T08:40:00.000-07:00

Women, here is a post just for you. As I am sure you all know, one of the things than never goes out of style for women is the "little black dress". The one thing that does change, however, is the fabrics and frills. This fall, BCBG has an amazing collection of this timeless dress. In my own personal opinion, BCBG is for the dress world like Godiva is for chocolate. They are very classy, with a wide selection, a higher price point (but not overpriced), and go well with every occasion. When wearing this universal dress it is very important to remember NOT to overdo it. One should not have too many accessories and the shoes shouldn't out-shine the dress. They should be understated sexy. The idea of this dress is to be simply plain. The attraction, from the men, is the idea of no-hassle sexy. Men love the idea of a woman who doesn't take forever to get ready. Subconsciously, the man sees the simplicity of the dress but feels the allure that it creates. With the typical A-line silhouette, this dress tends to be flattering on most women. Final verdict: for a change of pace, try this on for size. You'll be surprised how many heads you turn.

The Men's Cardigan

2006-10-03T08:17:00.000-07:00

For years and years the cardigan has been looked at as one of two things: women's apparel or "old man". In the last year or so, it has begun to creep back into the limelight. If you currently own a full-zip sweater then you are almost ready to take the step to the cardigan. There are several companies this year that have them, but I'd like to focus on just one: J.Crew. With their heavily English-influenced style and Anglo-Saxon-looking models, they have entwined their look this fall with the V-neck button cardigan. With the addition of this, anyone can achieve two of the popular looks this fall/winter. Which two you ask? That would have to be layering, and the cardigan but of course. Final verdict: when you want to create a look that says "I like my European heritage but I want to be comfortable/trendy" then pick this item up.

The Long Coat

2006-09-20T09:17:00.000-07:00

Now that Heavenly Hosting is up and running I can come back to commenting on fashion and the like. First order of business: the long coat. As far as styles go, the long coat (for men) has been a staple for the upper class. Since before the days of our founding fathers, the longer coat has been making appearances around the globe. This year is no exception to the rule. What you may notice is that the length of the coat has shortened from the calf length to the mid thigh. Now, the 3/4 length coats or "car coat" has made it back into the fashion limelight. I make the strong suggestion that every male should have at least one type of "overcoat" for the winter months. This allows you to dress up the wardrobe and maintain an appearance of elegance while having a suit on underneath. Nothing says fashion faux pas like a ski jacket with a suit.

For women, the length is a little bit more flexible. A slightly longer coat, like the one pictured, can do wonders for stretching out the body and drawing the eyes upwards. Plus, with the flare at the bottom and the collar at the top, it creates the appearance of an hourglass without being overstated... a most desired look.

Sister Site

2006-09-17T19:45:00.000-07:00

So for all of you out there who think I'm a huge time waster... I have another reason for you to think so. If you look over to the right, you'll see the new link to a site called Heavenly Hosting. That's right... it is written by none other than yours truly. It is dedicated to hosting parties and superficiality extraordinaire. Feel free to check it out. I expect that the fun haters out there like Redhurt will find millions of ways to tear it apart. Let the games begin.

G & S II

2006-09-14T21:04:00.000-07:00

And just in case you thought that my ideas of self-marketing were over:

Five, Six... Slevin

2006-09-14T20:03:00.000-07:00

This evening I decided to watch a movie that I had heard quite a bit about. The only thing was that I really didn't know anything about the movie. That being said: go out and rent it. Lucky Number Slevin was all and all a good movie. As the movie unfolded via witty dialogue and plot twists, all I could do was sit and listen intently. The phrasing and sheer wit of the characters is fantastic. It is almost the kind of movie that you need to watch over again just to catch all of the innuendos and jabs being thrown around. Example:

Slevin: Who are you?
The Boss: I'm The Boss.
Slevin: I thought he (pointing to other guy) was The Boss.
The Boss: Why? Do you think we look alike?

This may not seem like much in writing, but with the speed and timing that it is delivered, it brought a quick chuckle to my lips. Final Verdict: If you like movies like the Usual Suspects or L.A. Confidential or any good movies, go out and rent it. Plus, you can think about how awesome it would be to meet a character like the one played by Lucy Liu.

*Odd fact of the day: In 1995, The Usual Suspects total US box office gross was $22,627,479. In 2005, Lucky Number Slevin (a similar movie) total US box office gross was $22, 494, 487. Coincidence? I think not.

G & S

2006-09-07T20:23:00.000-07:00

So, recently I've had some time on my hands to think of creative ideas. Since I've been reading several different books about branding and fashion marketing, I've started thinking about myself as a marketable product. This stems from the development in the fashion industry of associating a designer with a brand (ex: Tom Ford with Gucci). Upon further inspection, I began to see that hospitality seems to be a trait that both my wife and I share... along with a taste for fashion.

As long as I can remember I have loved to put on parties and entertain guests. It is in my nature, though, to go above and beyond what a normal host would do. Extravagance and elegance are the two traits that I attempt to dovetail in all of my guests' experiences. I strive for upper class luxury with spa-like relaxation and ease. This is all pulled together under the guise that it took nothing to throw it together.

All of this led me to think of a brand/logo that I would use for my wife and myself. This logo could be placed on everything from invitations to the very napkins at the party. After an afternoon of brainstorming, I came up with an acceptable logo that is both simple and classy. Then, after working on the logo for so long, I decided to do an advertising campaign for this new "product". The advertisements would capture the ideals of our dogma while arousing intrigue and a subtle desire. The result of all this is captured within these several print advertisements*. Final verdict: Overdone... maybe. Creative... totally.

*Click on the pictures to view the entire advertisement in a larger format. The writing can be hard to read in the current size.

B.O. = B.A.D.

2006-09-02T21:16:00.000-07:00

Seriously. What is the deal with people not wearing any stench masking substance on their bodies? In the last several days I have come in contact with at least a dozen people who smelled as if they just finished the Navy SEAL hell week training and didn't have time to shower. People who reek shouldn't be allowed out in public. I totally understand if I was over at the person's house and they just finished working in the yard, but when you are out shopping at high-priced clothing stores... Come on. I'm not even talking about the occasional person who has a perfume or cologne on that I dislike. I'm talking about the people who really just don't care to put anything on at all...even deodorant. Personally, I get an anxiety attack if I start to get the impression that I may stink even a little bit. I don't know how one goes around knowing that their very presence causes the very flies in the air to drop dead. Honestly, just get a $3 bottle of body spray from Walmart. Anything is better than B.O. Final Verdict: Just do it...smell good. No questions please.

Twisted Insomnia

2006-09-02T15:11:00.000-07:00

Recently, I decided to rent a movie that I have been wanting to see for some time. I had to wait until my wife was going to be out for the evening due to her lack of wanting to see it. Let me just say this: she missed out. The Machinist (El Maquinista), starring Christian Bale, was absolutly amazing. Now this actor can really act. Anyone that is willing to lose 63 pounds for his role should get an automatic nomination for an Oscar. For most of the movie, Trevor Reznik (Christian Bale) looked like a poster child for anorexia nervosa. He let his body waste away until he was nothing more than a walking skeleton. The movie was powerful and disturbing so don't come with a weak stomach. I give it two thumbs up. If you want to really see what insomnia can do to the body and mind I recommend this film.

Then, the thing that really is amazing is that only one year later he is up to his incredible build for playing Bruce Wayne in Batman Begins. Is this guy incredible, or what? You figure that he not only had to get back the 63 pounds he lost, but he had to put on about another 20 for the role of Batman. Final Verdict: get out and rent this just because Christian Bale is amazing.

Suavity: Not a Haircare Product

2006-08-11T19:28:00.000-07:00

Suave: having a sophisticated charm, smoothly agreeable, and smugly convinced of their respectability. What an absolutely wonderful word. It is something that everyone should strive towards. Few men in our day have mastered the art of being completely debonnaire. When you have achieved this rakish element, women melt at the mere sound of your voice. Being handsome/well dressed usally goes along with this attribute, which is why I've decided to talk about it. Personally, I think that being suave is most simply broken down into two parts: wit and confidence. It is about knowing when to say something and knowing that when you say it that you are going to get a preset response, thus you are never off your game. Recently I decided to take it upon myself to help a fellow worker out with his suavity due to his complete lack thereof. His personality is amazingly agreeable, but the charm factor was just lacking a little bit. We began by talking about a specific situation where he struggled to find the correct words to use. By going back over the situation and presenting other alternatives he is now equipped if another situation should present itself. Being charming to the opposite sex is something that is not innate in most men, so it is a skill that needs to be honed and practiced until the desired outcome is achieved. Final verdict: get out and practice this lost skill and you may be surprised by where it can take you...items off your dinner receipt, good customer service, or just plenty of smiles.

Troegenator III: Rise of the Troegenators

2006-08-11T18:43:00.000-07:00

Recently I decided that I wanted to mix up my beer taste and try something completely new. I drove on down to the closest distributor that carries exotic and "off the beaten path" beers. After speaking with the owner for a bit about my tastes he recommended Troegenator Double Bock. It is a dark, strong lager with a bronze to brown color. It tastes somewhat similar to New Castle Ale, but with a heartier taste and more of a microbrewery feel. The beer is amazing and goes down very smooth, although you need to watch how many you have due to the 8.2% abv. The style, Double Bock, dates back to about 100 years ago when Monastic brewers would fast (without solid foods) and rely on stronger, richer beer to fulfill their nutritional needs. The Double Bock was basically known as liquid bread. In 2006 the Troegs Brewing company claimed the bronze medal in the Brewers Association World Beer Cup with the Troegenator. This is an impressive award to receive due to the field of 2,221 entries from 540 breweries in 56 countries. Final Verdict: if you can find it, pick up a case and enjoy the rich flavor of the Double Bock.

The Dress Shirt + Accessories

2006-08-11T12:05:00.000-07:00

So for all of you out there in reading land who wondered where I went, I was working on the next batch of fashion, trends, movies, etc. articles. And first up we have the dress shirt. To be quite frank, the dress shirt actually has very little to play in this topic. I am more concerned with the pairing of it with its eternal mate: the tie. Personally, I really don't understand why this is such a hard concept, but what I have noticed over the last 8 months or so is that men (and even about 60% of women) seem to have a hard time pairing the two. Now I'm not talking about pairing a basic tie with a solid shirt. I am referring to matching patterned shirts with patterned ties. This can be anything from stripes on stripes to matching a wide checked shirt with a smaller checked tie. First off, the main rule that you have to think about is the rule of 3. This simply refers to the fact that 2 out of 3 things that you are wearing can be the same pattern. For example: if you are wearing a pinstriped suit then either your tie or your shirt can be striped, but not both. When it comes to patterns, you want to watch that the patterns aren't too similar in size. This goes with stripes as well. The stripe widths need to be different or it looks too much like you cut a piece of your tie/shirt/suit and made the other striped piece. For checks on checks, I often opt for a large box check for the shirt and use a smaller pattern for the tie. Sometimes it is nice to mix up the direction of the checks as well. A small diamond shape on the basic windowpane is a nice classic look.

If you really have lots of trouble with the matching, pick up a magazine and cut out the pictures that you like and use them for shopping. In a recent interview with the CEO of Armani, one of the main things that was talked about was how he finds it stupid that men don't use their resources for shopping. There is nothing wrong with taking your favorite pictures and trying to replicate them within your wardrobe. Another thing is to find a sales associate who seems to be very knowledgable and take their advice. When worse comes to worse, just shop off the mannequins. They are probably "store set" which means that they were picked out by people with a degree in visuals.

Finally, what is the deal with men only knowing how to tie one knot. That is just stupid. Every man should learn how to tie (at least) the basic three knots. They all have a different time to be used. Most men learned how to tie the only knot that they know from their father. There is nothing wrong with that, but one knot isn't good for every occasion. Oh, and if you are the kind of man that leaves your tie tied when you are not wearing it, please stop. All that does is press permanent wrinkles into the tie. So back to the knots...the first knot that we come to is the four-in-hand. This is the most basic of knots and makes the smallest of knots. It is used with forward point and button down shirts, or if you want to be very Euro, a wide spread collar. Next we come to the half-windsor. This is the lazy brother of the windsor knot but works well when the larger knot doesn't fit. Finally, the full windsor knot (probably named after the Duke of Windsor) is the most elegant knot and, as consequence, the most formal. Regardless of what type of knot you tie, the dimple must be present in the tie just below the base of the knot. This "crease" should be centered and pulled tight. Now that you've mastered all the knots, take the time to learn to tie the bowtie. Final verdict: get out there and master a couple knots then expand your shirt/tie combinations. Every girl's crazy about a sharp dressed man...just remember that.

Retro Grunge

2006-07-31T20:19:00.000-07:00

This is yet again another fashion blog about the great looks for this fall. A popular look this fall (and currently) is to go for the very distressed, grunge band look. This is usually accomplished by wearing well beaten and faded jeans with some sort of destroyed/vintage t-shirt with either a tattered belt and converse style shoes or a well kept leather belt and pointy shoes. The jeans worn tend to be more fitted and the appropriate hairstyle for this look is long and messy. While this look works well for the more defined male, it also hails to the skinny crowd as well. Some skinny men are even known to wear girls jeans to accomplish the tight fit. I am not one of those skinny men. Instead I wear tapered fit, bleach washed jeans and the rock-washed t-shirts from stores like Jimmyz. The fade of the jean depends on the style and color of the shirt you are wearing. For brighter colors and lighter hues, wear dark faded jeans and for dark shirts, like the one above, go with a lighter jean.

This is a very easy look to master without spending much money at all. If you are really in a pinch, shopping at the Salvo works just as well. For the fall, the touch of a well-worn leather jacket is just the ticket. If a leather jacket is just a little out of the price range, a nice unstructured fatigue jacket is just what the doctor ordered. Final verdict: for a casual night out, this style makes for a perfect addition to the wardrobe ...especially if the night out includes drinks at a trendy martini bar.

Nothing Under 600 Please...

2006-07-25T21:12:00.000-07:00

One thing that everyone should splurge on in their life is a set of very good bedsheets. There is nothing like laying down on a set of 600 thread count (or higher) sheets. I notice a difference the instant I lay down on a set of nice sheets. It is almost like the Egyptian cotton speaks to my weary body and invites my mind to come into the world of peaceful rest. Of course, you can't throw expensive sheets on a bad bed, but that goes without saying. My wife and I have three very nice sets of sheets and they were worth every penny we spent. When we were picking out our sheet sets for the new bed she wanted to go with the basic 250 thread count sheets, but I would have none of it. I said that if we were going to spend the money, why not shell out for a really good set. So we ended up getting an 800 thread count Egyptian cotton set. Once you've tried it you never want to go back. About a month ago we saw a 600 set on sale and I persuaded her that it would be a good investment since we could use another set aside from the jersey and satin sets that we have. Final verdict: if you are out go ahead and pick up a set... you probably can find a set for right around $100 if you look hard enough.

Musical Envelopment

2006-07-23T08:41:00.000-07:00

It is one thing to hear music from far away or when it is mixed with the ambient sounds of life. It is a completely different thing to listen to it in the unsuppressed state. One of the most relaxing things to do is listen to your favorite music either on a good set of headphones or with the full power of Dolby Digital surround sound via home theater speakers. When you are encased within the sound, it is like the artist is putting on a private show just for you...deep within the recesses of your tranquil mind. You can really hear how the sound moves through space and with a half-decent equalizer you can change the reverberation effects to morph the setting of the production. Final verdict: Whether you want to feel like you are at a Blink 182 concert, or you want to listen to the soothing sounds of Sarah Brightman, I recommend that you set some time aside to really enjoy the power of unadulterated music.

Dusty Sleeper

2006-07-21T22:26:00.000-07:00

This evening my wife and I decided that we were going to watch something out of our collection of movies. After scanning through them we lighted upon one that we had purchased in a group deal at one point and then never got around to watching. I knew that it was good, but not as good as I was ready for. The movie that we chose was The Phantom of the Opera. First off, let me just say...Wow. Emmy Rossum has an incredible voice...which just goes along perfectly with her innocent beauty: a perfect dovetail of grace and purity. The music of The Phantom of the Opera is resplendent...it draws you in immediately, but I had heard the music before. It was when I finally got to see it with the visually stunning feats of the silver screen that it truly became breathtaking. If you haven't seen this overwhelming masterpiece I highly recommend it. Oh, and by the way, it is an opera...so 90% of the dialogue is musical.

Fall Colors

2006-07-19T20:23:00.000-07:00

All of this stinking hot weather has made me start to think about the up and coming season...Autumn. Retail stores are already beginning to get in their Fall 2006 collections. The summer prices get marked lower and lower so as to make room for the new merchandise. There is just something wonderful and refreshing about the season of Fall. It has to be my favorite season because it isn't quite freezing cold yet and it isn't so scorching hot that you melt the second you step outside. One of the main reasons why I love the "dying season" is because of all the great colors...and I'm not just talking about nature.

Fall brings out the colors in fashion that I look forward to the remaining 3 months. It is when the earthtones and muted hues come back into the visual forefront. Plus, the fabric styles are so diverse. In summer you really only have 3 fabric styles unless you talk about evening wear...and they mostly require one to have a great body. Since I am not a walking model, I find summer to be the most embarrassing time to be dressed. At least the other seasons I'm not expected to show off my chicken legs or not-toned chest. Fall gives you the ability to cover up your flaws and let the fabrics draw towards your other features.

This fall the runway designers and other fashion companies have decided to stay with the earth tones of years gone past. If you flip through most of the fashion magazines you will see that darker colored jeans are back in as well as vests...and I'm not talking about outerwear. The dress vest is a popular collection piece for many of the designers. They come in various fabrics from suede to tweed. Personally, I am a huge fan of the vest and can't wait to pick up a few. You can pair it with blazers, suits, or even just a pair of jeans. It is a great addition to any wardrobe.

Another big item this fall is going to be the shrunken jacket. It fits tighter through the arms and hugs the body a little more than a typical blazer. Thirdly we see the big swing back towards the tweeds and herringbones which are reminiscent of the early 1930's. This gives the outfits a very "Hey, I want to be English" look...and I'm a big fan. Throw in a scarf and an old ten-speed and I'd look like I was on my way to Ancient History class at Oxford. All in all, Autumn is a perfect season both for the wide variety of colors, and for the perfect weather.

A Lot Like...

2006-07-09T21:12:00.000-07:00

Every once and a while I stumble upon a somewhat unknown movie that I really enjoy watching. It is like finding a needle in a haystack because I have to sort through lots of crappy no-name movies before I find one that I enjoy. Tonight I would like to feature the movie A Lot Like Love. It is a somewhat sappy romance story that takes place over a period of about seven years. The thing that I like about the movie is that it seems to be very real at times. I find myself relating to the characters in the sense that they are searching for what lies ahead in life for them and the realization that your "plan" doesn't always work out how you...well...planned. If you are in the mood for something sappy and romantic I give my stamp of approval.

For other interesting movies to watch check out:

Stay - a twisted thriller that messes with your head...if you see the twist in the movie you are a genius
A History of Violence - very bloody and graphic but extremely well done...it actually won awards at the Cannes Film Festival
Sliding Doors - a movie that have a very unique concept that makes you think "what if..."

Fusion and the Male Face

2006-07-05T11:32:00.000-07:00

Recently I decided that I needed to upgrade my current razor to something new. Throughout my shaving career I have upgraded razors twice and have found there to be an improvement each time. Originally I used the Bic Slim Twin razors which consisted of two blades and some cheap polymer made in Cambodia. The advantage of the Slim Twin was that since the head was very small, it made trimming around sensitive areas optimal. Take for example under the nose...this spot bleeds like your femeral artery when you cut it and takes forever to heal. With the Slim Twin, no problem.

Then after I had used that I decided to upgrade to one with more blades. So I went out shopping and decided to light upon the Mach 3 razor. The razor was incredible and it made for a closer, quicker shave. The downside of the razor was that the replacement heads were more expensive than a 10-pack of Slim Twins. The upside was that my face would stay smooth longer and until the blades dulled, I wouldn't get razor burn. Another downside was that with the more blades came the problem of a larger head thus leading to not as close trimming in the tight spots. So, in order to correct this, I still kept a few Slim Twins to finish off the job.

BUT, then after two years of Mach 3 territory I decided to try out the new, advertising packed, Gillette Fusion. I will admit that I had my doubts about this razor but one use put them all to rest. The razor is amazing. The 5 blades make for an even pressure system on your face and an immensely close shave. Here is the kicker: it has a single blade on the reverse side for those hard to groom areas. Now I don't have to keep a back-up razor in my other hand while I shave. For those of you who haven't moved to electric and like the closeness of a razor shave, I highly recommend the new Gillette Fusion. Oh, and unless you just have to have batteries, stay away from the power versions. Leave the moving blades to the electric razors.

Musicology

2006-06-27T20:45:00.000-07:00

It is interesting how you can find a song to fit basically any mood that you can get yourself into. When it is a sunny day and you feel like being outside and driving with your windows down while wearing jeans and a t-shirt there is no better song than Somebody Like You by Keith Urban. Or let's say that you are depressed and you want to throw fuel on the fire. Look no further than Whiskey Lullaby by Brad Paisly and Allison Krauss. What's that? You feel like running around like mad...I've got just the song. Scatman by Scatman John will do in a pinch. Ok, Grant, I hear what you are saying but let's say that I want to seduce my mate. Off the top of my head, Yellow Daffodils by Malia or Slomotion by Stargazer should get the job done. If you are preparing for a sporting event things like Spybreak by Propellerhead or Eye of the Tiger by Survivor work wonders.

With knowing how music affects your moods, it gives you the edge to be able to influence them. It is pretty hard to stay in a down mood when you keep hearing songs like Call on Me by Eric Prydz...where as something like You by Fisher may just push you deeper into yourself. My recommendation: try to broaden your musical tastes and take some time to find out how they make you feel.

A Buzz with the Pick-Me-Up

2006-06-27T20:02:00.000-07:00

When I went out to dinner this evening with my lovely wife I got a new type of mixed drink. I have always been a huge fan of the martini, especially in the fruit variations. Up until this evening, the pineapple martini and the cosmo blanco were my favorite styles of this timeless cocktail. The espresso martini takes the cake for the best drink to have with your dessert. It was like drinking an iced mocha with just the slightest kick of top shelf vodka. The ingredients were Absolute Vanilla, Starbucks liqueur, espresso, and simple syrup. If you are ever out at a bar and they have this wonderful drink I highly recommend getting one.

Summer Fabric Interview: Seersucker

2006-06-18T19:25:00.000-07:00

One of the fashionable fabrics for this summer is the on-again off-again style trend known as seersucker. It is a wonderful way for the wearer to convey a dashing transatlantic look that is a little bit David Beckham with a touch of F. Scott Fitzgerald. In other words, a bit of trendy pizazz with the undertones of the early 1930's classic flair. Originally, seersucker was striped Indian Cotton (circa 18th C.). You can tell that from the original name, the Persian shir o shakar, literally “milk and sugar”, in reference to what we now see as the defining feature. The puckered and wrinkled look comes from the fact that the fabric threads that are used shrink at different heats...thus giving it an uneven tone. Brooks Brothers was actually one of the first major US retail companies to carry the seersucker, and single-handedly helped to start the 1930s pinstriping phase. Personally, seersucker is one of my favorite summer fabrics because it is dressy but still feels like you are wearing pajama pants.

The only requirement for wearing this lightweight fabric is that you are confident in it. The personality makes the suit or outfit. If you are going to venture out in this bold pattern, do it with flair and pastel colors. Since seersucker suiting only comes in about 3 main colors (pink, grey, blue) it makes this hard to wear if you are very fair skinned. When in doubt, the navy is the best choice since it looks great with dark leather accents. Women have many more choices when it comes to seersucker and thus it is a more versatile fabric. Even if the fabric comes in other colors, I would encourage men to steer away from them unless it is for casual shirting (oh yes, you can get it in shirt form). Seersucker looks best, for men, when it is used for the basic suiting or pants...don't get carried away with the shirts and belts, although it does work well for a casual tie. If you haven't stepped out in this style I highly recommend it, so what are you waiting for? Get out and get some...seersucker that is.

Spa Products for Men?

2006-06-17T22:28:00.000-07:00

Over the years most men seem to come to the conclusion that pampering yourself is primarily a female trait. The beer drinking and sports loving is only left up to us men and that cracked skin and razor burn are the medals of manhood. It is really only in the last 10 years that we have begun to see the shift back the other direction with the innovative development of the "metrosexual". Currently, it is not uncommon for some men to pluck their eyebrows, wear make-up, and carry man-bags (otherwise known as purses). I am by no means here to argue the new social category of the "metro" but merely to offer the suggestion that not all the changes are for the negative. For example: take the serenity shower (shown above) which resides at The Broadmoor five star resort and spa in lovely Colorado Springs. Now I don't know about you, but it looks pretty sweet and amazingly refreshing. Aside from the $42 price point for only five minutes of bliss it sounds like a wonderful time had for all. $42 , you say?...smashing darling. I'll take two.

But let's talk on a smaller scale. What about the basic spa products that have traditionally been reserved for women. Bath and Body Works has started to realize this shift in male thinking and has since developed an entire men's line. In fact, they have moved the aromatherapy line into that fantastic grey area known as the androgynous zone. The products aren't skewed towards a specific gender. Having soft skin and relaxing sleep shouldn't be held hostage by the female sex like the last chocolate bar on the first day of PMS. Instead men should be able to embrace the soothing sensations of a sea salt soak like Chandler Bing from the hit series Friends. If you remember the episode, he mocked the power of the bubble bath but once he tested the seemingly still waters he found a swirling vortex of pleasant sensations beneath the placid veneer. My recommendation: start off with something simple like a basic moisturizer or a simple bath soak. You may find that sugar scrubs and pillow sprays are right up your alley.

Deliciously Divine Demitasse

2006-06-15T06:30:00.000-07:00

Coffee.

What a wonderful drink.

Picture this: It is very early morning. The sleepy sun is just beginning to peek his radiant head out from under his covers of a horizon. Your mind is fighting to keep you in dreamland while your body is trying to get you out from your warm cocoon. Then you catch a wiff of that wonderfully intoxicating aroma from the kitchen. It wafts its way down the hall and into your zombie-like proximity. The very smell is like an a C9H13NO3 (epinephrine) shot to your cobweb brain. The very taste brings a satisfied smile to your face and the C8H10N4O2 (caffeine) is enough to kill a herd of elk but your body has become accustomed to it. The stimulant kickstarts your body and just like that you are ready to take on the day.

I am sure that pretty much all of you have experienced the wonderful effects of coffee but that isn't what I want to focus on. Instead let's talk about the taste. There are no substitutions for this amazing bean-based drink. Java is totally an acquired taste but it is a fine line between aficionado and addict. I like coffee with the rest of them, but I don't crave it all the time. Instead, I like to enjoy my cup of coffee instead of relying on it. For example: Gloria Jean's Coffee... I am pretty sure that it actually is an industrial paint stripper. Even Starbucks coffee isn't that good... it really is just the name (a perfect example of branding well done). Instead, I go for the coffee that has the rich flavor without the esophagus melting aftertaste. There is nothing better than savoring a hot cup of coffee with dessert or early in the morning.

What about the social aspects of coffee? Ah yes, how could I forget. When you go out with a group of friends it is great to go find a coffee house with tons of character. In every new town I go to I often search out the local coffee "watering hole". Each establishment has their own flare and brews to go with it. When I was in Phoenixville visiting my brother he took me to this wonderful coffee bar with laid back clientele and barristas. The thing that bugs me about coffee, though, is the fact that younger and younger kids are starting to drink it. It used to be an unofficial "right of passage" into adulthood or at least college years. Now you can go to a coffee house in the morning and see the yoga moms with their cup and their 20-month-old sucking on their bottle full of a grande double shot caramel americano. I truly don't believe that kids that young appreciate the coffee. How many times have you been out and witnessed 13-year-old kids ordering drinks with extra shots? Come on. It's obviously more for the appeal and that the prepubescent teens are searching for a way to feel older. Let me tell you, if you are 12 and you need a shot in the dark (brewed coffee with a shot of espresso) to get going in the morning you are in trouble.

But back to the positive side: It feels great to just sit around an open-air patio with a group of friends, coffee in hand, and shoot the breeze knowing that you have nothing to do and nowhere to be.

Final Verdict: Get out and pick up a cup but take the time to enjoy it. That's how we roll with it here in Western PA. This is Gmack signing off. You stay sylphlike society.

Southern Comfort: The Good Stuff Edition

2006-06-15T04:41:00.000-07:00

There are just some things in life that make you smile.

One of the little pleasures in life has to be getting a new pair of socks. There are very few things as comfortable as putting on a new pair of really good socks...preferably a nice pair of athletic socks. If you have ever gotten a pair of American Eagle socks you totally know what I am talking about. If your feet had a face...well that would just be weird, but if they did I am pretty sure that they would smile. I got this great pair of microfiber dress socks the other week and, "wow" just those can make your day go well.

Another simple pleasure in life is climbing into a freshly made bed with new sheets. What a wonderful feeling to slide underneath the tightly tucked-in sides of the crisp, washed sheets. If you have ever had your sheets hang-dried well then you...hmmm let's just say that if you haven't let your sheets air dry then stop reading this because you obviously don't know what is good in life and these little pointers aren't going to help you with your meaningless life. When I was a child, one of my favorite things was to get into bed at night after my mother had put my hang-dried sheets back on my bed. They always had a very clean and airy smell to them that normal fabric softener or detergent can't replicate. Have you ever climbed into bed when your sheets are a little cold? It is very refreshing to snuggle under the sheets when the air is brisk and you have to wait for your body heat to warm up the fabric. Satin sheets are classic for this. It can be 105 degrees all day long but when you climb into bed your sheets are silky and chilled. They just snap up that nippy night air.

Finally, one can never underestimate the soothing power of a new broken-in tee. J.Crew, Jimmy'z, and American Eagle are well known for this. The thin fabric of a new "T" against your skin puts a smile on your face and a warmth in your heart...or maybe I'm confusing that with a goodnight kiss. Either way, they can be a great way to relax in the evening or the perfect pick-me-up for the start of your day. The other benefit of a great t-shirt is that they pretty much never go out of style and you can wear them under just about everything. A basic solid tee can be worn under everything...including work clothes and even the occasional ringer tee can step up in a pinch.

My final thoughts for the day. Splurge today and get a comfy tee, a new pair of socks and relax on your freshly washed, air-dried sheets this evening and enjoy the wonderful summer weather. So that's how it's done here in Western PA. This is Gmack signing out. You stay classy world.

Every Girl's Crazy 'Bout a Sharp Dressed Man

2006-06-12T21:23:00.000-07:00

Ok men, here is our turn to have a little bit of fashion advice. For starters I will just say one word: ombré. This is what the fashion world refers to as the slow fade of color from a darker shade to a lighter shade in order to draw the viewer's eye in a specific direction. Take this wonderful v-neck sweater from Kenneth Cole. The darker area around the bottom helps to conceal any flaws (ex: excess weight, or a family of flying squirrels stuck to peanut butter). Basically the eye is drawn towards the lighter areas of the shirt. The lightest area being in the middle also helps to create the image of larger pectorial muscles.

Next we have what I like to call the shoulder broadener. Horizonal stripes especially across the middle of the chest help to make it appear as if you have a larger (muscular) chest than you actually do. If you notice on this model, the accent with the polo shirt "v" also helps to add the shape to the pectorial area. The collar on the shirt adds to the ideal upside-down triangle shape of the male upper body. It helps to accent the "traps" thus pulling the eyes outwards towards your outer shoulder. Notice that the model doesn't have a bright colored belt to immediately draw your eyes to the center of the body. The subtle look of this outfit is what really makes this work. The darker fade jean even helps with a lengthening/slimming illusion.

Another great look for pretty much any male is the sports coat/blazer/suit jacket. Now this jacket, being made up of a linen/cotton blend strives for what is most often called the "noble wrinkle". It isn't so much a look of unkemptness...but rather a purposeful look of relaxation. What a jacket does is merely enlongate the torso. Since the flash of color comes at the center of the body, the eyes don't linger on the outward shape of the body. This is a great tactic for a man wanting to hide a little bit of a "spare tire" or those pesky flying squirrels caught in peanut butter. The several top buttons of the dress shirt unbuttoned shows that the male is confident and stylist. I highly recommend the top 2-3 buttons undone. Finally, a 3 button or more jacket pulls the lapels higher up on the jacket, thus slimming the person. If you have a larger waist, I would steer clear of a 3-button and move to the classic 2-button. A 2-button usually has more room through the lower area of the jacket without being overly noticeable. The one-button is reserved for usually slim-cut jackets and as such should be worn with well tailored shirts and more classic-cut pants.

Finally, the v-neck and 3/4 length sleeve. The v-neck has made quite a comeback over the last year. It allows more of the neck muscles to be seen, but the real benefit is how it helps to shape the chest area. The v-pattern mirrors the underside of the male pectorial area and really accents a well developed chest, or helps to enhance an average one. Notice how the shirt is just loose enough through the abs region to leave some to the imagination but at the same time doesn't blouse out at the bottom. The 3/4 length sleeve is one of my personal favorites. I often roll my sleeves up or "scrunch" them up as shown above. This shows off the thinner area of the forearm and helps to bunch up the fabric around the bulkier area of the arm. For guys with great biceps this actually masks your assets, but for guys with average to scrawny arms this works to your benefit. Since the bicep area is indiscernible, the imagination plays often to your advantage. Plus, the other benefit of the "scrunched" look is that you look more casual...and confident.

So that's how it rolls as of late. For more fashion ideas check out www.kennethcole.com or www.expressfashion.com .

Oh, and everytime you get ready to go out play the song Sharp Dressed Man by ZZ Top. It is the ultimate male psych-up song.

Peeps: Not just Friends or Marshmallow Chicks

2006-06-09T20:45:00.000-07:00

Ankle wrap, ankle strap, leg wrap, espadrilles, slingback, slides, pumps, stiletto, kitten heel, flats, mules, and wedges...goodness gracious women have options. I just made a dent into the various styles that women have to choose from when it comes to picking the right shoe for the right occasion. So, let me elaborate on what's in right now and what to wear it with.

First and foremost, my personal favorite has to be the peep-toe heel. This can come in about three different forms, but the peep-toe pump is probably the most common. The wedge is the other big seller athough it isn't as dressy. The peep-toe pump means the a majority of the shoe is enclosed without any straps attaching around the legs. The height of the spike can vary anywhere from 2-4 inches usually with 2 1/2 to 3 inches being the most common. These shoes look wonderful with dresses that are just below the knee or shorter...the A-line skirt is without a doubt the classic choice for the peep-toe (see blog about dresses). My wife owns a gorgeous copper pair from BCBG to go with several of her dresses. These shoes look great with capri jeans and even gaucho pants, but leave the shorts at home with these on. An enclosed shoe doesn't work well with shorter pants.

The next popular summer item would be the espadrille. This comes in many different forms. Flats and ankle wrap flats are great but I don't think that they accent the female calf muscle very well. When picking these out keep in mind that the soles can be very hard thus shortening the comfort life. The wedge ankle-wrap espadrille is my favorite and my stunning wife just ordered a pair from VS recently to go with a summer style dress. The flash of color due to the strapping can spice up any wardrobe and if the toe is open, they work well with shorts. The summer dress is also a fitting choice for an evening out with the espadrille.

Finally the last "in" shoe for the summer is the strappy heel. This comes in one of two heights. The kitten heel is a much shorter heel and is great for someone who has back problems and can't deal with a high stiletto heel. They also look great on tall women because they allow for leg definition without the cost of height. My favorite in this category would be the spike stiletto ankle strap modified slingback. Basically what this means is that it is a higher heel with a slingback strap that has another strap that goes around your ankle. This gives for a very svelte look with the support of an ankle strap. These look great with many different outfits because they are airy and light.

For figuring out what you like, check out sites like www.neimanmarcus.com or www.jcrew.com or www.nordstrom.com or www.bcbg.com or www.victoriassecret.com . Any of these sites show you the shoes with various dresses/outfits...then unless you want to pay $350 for a pair of Steve Madden heels, go elsewhere with your styles in mind.

I've Got One Hand In My Pocket...And The Other One's Carrying a Shopping Basket

2006-06-06T16:22:00.000-07:00

How many times have you gone to the grocery store with only one thing to pick up and then you end up carrying home an armload? I know that it is inevitable that when I go, I see all of the cleverly placed sale items and I cave like a sandcastle built too close to the sea. I start rationalizing to myself that it is much more economical to get it now when it is on sale because we are going to use it. Then, before I know it, we have 8 cans of salsa and no chips to eat with it. There are even times that I become so distracted with all of the things that I don't need that I end up forgetting what I came for in the first place. This usually doesn't happen when I shop with a grocery list; however, I tend to just run and pick up what I need last minute. Since I do most of the cooking and my things can tend to be exotic, I need fresh ingredients and this inhibits purchasing ahead of time. It is even worse when I shop with my lovely wife. We both start noticing things that look good and 'BAM' we have a $40 bill. Supermarkets are pretty clever. It is so nice of them to put those little green or red baskets around the store so that once you arms get too "conveniently" heavy that you can unload it into a suitcase-sized tote.

That's all I have to say about that.

So in summation: eat your green vegetables and make sure that your campfire is out before packing up camp...oh, and beware the grocery tote.

Scents and Sensibility

2006-06-05T20:34:00.000-07:00

Back in the early '90s there was a movie called Scent of a Woman. What exactly is the scent of a woman? It is interesting because there are so many various colognes and perfumes out there, but what makes them attractive to other people? I find that it is great to change up my scent daily based upon how I feel and thus I am able to convey my mood to my wife without even having to be in the room. Actually, it isn't that much of a science, but I enjoy having several different types of cologne. I have an athletic, robust cologne for more everyday wear (Hummer), a citrus style cologne for a fresh smell (Acqua Di Gio by Armani), and a dressy cologne for a nice evening out (Polo Black). In highschool I used to only wear one type of scent, and yes it has its' perks because people begin to associate you with a particular aroma, but then you are very predictable. I really don't like being a person that is just a one horse down or a one trick pony or an old dog who can't learn a new trick pony. I am always looking to broaden the scope of my raw olfactory appeal, so Burburry and Puma will be added to my collection at some point.
I really enjoy the fact that my wife has 4 different perfumes (Esencia de Duende, CK Euphoria, VS Very Sexy, and opBlend) and they each affect me in a different way. The base of the perfume (ex: vanilla, citrus) changes the whole tone of the scent. It is amazing that women have so many options with how they want to smell. With the various hair products and body lotions and body mists, the possiblities are endless. Basically, I think that the scent of a woman is ever changing and that is for the best. Now I have too long dominated the conversation. What are your thoughts on the matter?

A Dress Has Always Been....My Strongest Suit

2006-06-05T14:44:00.000-07:00

So seeing how the title of my blog deals with fashion and trends I figured that I had better write a clothing based article.

For all of you who keep up with what is out and what colors are in and what is going on: this is for you. According to all of the latest fashion designers, the dress is one of this summer's biggest items. And all I have to say is that it is about time. There are all different kinds of dresses and styles that are to be worn and I shall delve into all of them for the lovely ladies. And men, take note because I shall cover things which are important if you will be buying for your spouse/fiancé/girlfriend.

First off, we will start with the most basic style of dress...The A-line. This is probably the simplist of the dresses and one of the most universal. Ann Taylor basically makes all of their dresses in this style. It is characterized by starting off with usually a halter, strapless or spaghetti strap top then staying very simple to right above the hips and then fanning out to flatter the hip/thigh region. This is great for a woman that doesn't really have hips or who has more curvy hips. It helps to draw attention to other areas...like her neck, bust, and lower legs. Dark colors of this dress are great for being even more concealing or complimenting light skin tones. The various lenghts can also help to create the illusion or height. A tea-length dress (cut to end at the shin), for example, would not be a good choice for a woman that is trying to look taller.

The next dress would have to be the empire waisted dress. If dresses were only categorized into two sections they would be the empire and the a-line. The empire waist's stand-out characteristic is that the dress begins to flow outward from just under the bust. The "structure" of the dress tends to be only in the upper 1/4 of the dress. These dresses usually come in spaghetti straps although they come in all the other variations. Occasionally they have a ribbon just under the bust to add some accent to the divison between structure and flow. This dress is great for hiding basically everything. With a plunging neckline this can accent the bust area and if the "V" dips between the breasts it can create the illusion of larger breasts for women with smaller cup sizes. And the fading of the color throughout the length of the dress can draw eyes away from certain areas direct it elsewhere.

The halter dress is one of the most common dress styles to find during the summer months. This gives the ability to have a greater amount of skin showing through the back, thus being cooler. Also, the halter style dress does wonders for enhancing the bust. The halter top pulls them upwards and often closer together, which in turn creates cleavage. This is often a good choice for women with a smaller bust or for a woman who is looking to maximize her "assets". The other bust enhancing top would be the corset style dress, but they are more difficult to find and can be uncomfortable.

The sheath is one of the most difficult styles of dresses to wear correctly (in my opinion). Since the idea of the dress is to cling to every curve of the female physique, it can be very unflattering. This dress is perfect for a woman who wants to show off a toned, curvy body without having to mess around with slits up the side or a low-cut back. The sheath allows for fluid movement (although this depends on the fabric) and can be packed very easily for trips. This is a wonderful dress to go out on the town in, and it can be used for fancy functions with just some simple jewelry added. Due to the simplicity of the dress, they tend to cost less than other dresses, but once again this depends on the designer.

The assymetrical cut dress is personally one of my favorites. It hails from the latin countries and can add a bit of ethnic flair to an evening. The irregular cut of the gown allows for maximum visibility to the legs. Women who are looking to show off their toned and tan legs should pick one of these up. They make great dresses for dancing and often are complemented well by strappy heels. This dress style, though, is difficult to just dress down and wear out grocery shopping. Very few, if any, "summer dresses" come with this style of hemline cut.

Finally, we come to one of the most casual dresses, the babydoll dress. They are categorized by having shorter hems and often plunging necklines. The material used for the dress usually is very flowy and they tend to have an empire waist. As you notice on this picture, the use of a solid colored strap separates the structured top from the wispy bottom of the garment. This design is best for women who have good legs and want to add a little shape to their hip region. The empire waist draws attention to the legs and bust and allows the mind to fill in the perfect hourglass shape beneath the ripples of the fabric. Because this dress is flowing, it makes great beach attire. This design come in everything from very casual to as upscale as you'd like (depending on the length).

Two to Tango

2006-06-04T22:22:00.000-07:00

One of the things that I have come to really miss about not having to work and having lots of free time was the access to dancing facilities. I really miss being able to dance across the floor and even instruct from time to time. When I see movies like "Shall we Dance" or pretty much any other movie that has to do with one of the classical ballroom styles it makes me long for the time when I can get back out and perfect my skills again. The only problem around here is that if I want to do any dancing like that I have to travel at least to Pittsburgh or further. I remember a funny axe-finger-chopping, bearded fellow telling me that he once went to a place in Monroeville down below Pittsburgh with a group of people and having a wonderful time dancing with 80 year old women.

I think that it is very difficult to argue that good dancing is not captivating to watch. There is just something magical about how graceful the human form can become. It is stunning how we can convey some of our strongest emotions through the fluid movement through space to the echos of sound waves. Take for example, passion. I think this picture sums that up.

And when you go dancing, you have to get dressed up and the woman is usually in a dress. Since the dress is one of the sexiest things that a woman can wear, you can't go wrong there. Simple elegance with strappy heels and bare shoulders....mmmm mmm good. Plus men, it gives you a reason to buy another dress for your lady (which, by the way, is one of the hottest clothing items out this summer). My suggestion: Go dancing. Dancing is an amazing aphrodisiac.

While You Were Sleeping...

2006-06-04T16:21:00.000-07:00

For anyone who is married, I am sure that one of your favorite things is the fact that you get to sleep with your significant other....in the same bed. That is, of course, unless you are like the 1950's and sleep in separate beds...and if that is you please stop reading. But seriously, one of the highlights to my day is always right before I fall asleep. There is just something very comforting getting to sleep beside the person you love. Plus, when it is freezing outside you can snuggle up together for body warmth.....and when it is hot you can snuggle next to the person until they scream for you to get your sticky body away from them.

Now the funny thing that I have noticed is the various ways that people sleep. Ok, take the couple in the picture at the top. Now this is a very protective and comforting way to sleep but what they don't tell you is that the guy's arm is basically turning black from loss of blood. This is a great way to sleep for a short while...like a nap. It is also a great way to start sleep and then move to another position.

This next couple has got a much better way to sleep and I am judging that by the way that they are sleeping that they are both left handed. Actually I don't know, but I am right handed and I sleep on the opposite side. This is a great position because you are facing each other and then when you wake up the other person is the first thing you see. Oh yeah, and you can melt their face with your morning breath.

The last couple is looking very comfortable and relaxed. I enjoy this position for shorter naps because if you lay this close and on top of each other for long periods it can get very warm. Basically sleeping is just awesome to start with and doing it with someone you love is even better. I just can't get enough of it and I look forward to my days off because I take advantage of that and sleep in with her.

Lovely Lascivious Listening

2006-05-24T08:01:00.000-07:00

Over the years I have found that my muscial tastes flitter from one style of music to the next. I am able to glean different desirable qualities from the different genres and then utilize those to interblend with my current mental state. This then creates a utopia of both thought and perception. Within the last months I have broadened my horizons to a new type of music which I basically just qualify as ambient elegance. As far as I have been able to discern, these cds are not produced in the United States and therefore makes them only obtainable via importing them. This alone makes me feel slightly elitist. The name of the cd collection is none other than Erotic Lounge. Now, before you get all up in arms and declare me to be a 70s porno groove listener, hear me out. The cds are mainly consisting of various styles of music including but not limited to: electronica, fusion jazz, acid jazz, fusion, blues, trip-hop, and lo-fi. The music is not offensive and there are not moaning women in the background, so it is suitable for even your svelte mixers. As far as I am able to tell, there are only three cds from this collection currently out. They are Erotic Lounge, Erotic Lounge: Sensual Passion Volume 2, Erotic Lounge: Bare Jewels. I highly recommend the cd collection to anyone who wants to add a little bit of ambient eroticism to their collection.

Ahhh, the Beers of Europe

2006-05-23T20:36:00.000-07:00

The last several months I have been expanding my beer tastes into some of the more exotic imports that are available in the surrounding areas of Grove City. I have developed a taste for the following beers.

If you are looking for a great, crisp beverage with a mild aftertaste I suggest Pilsner Urquell. It is a great drink if you are slightly tired or worn out from a day of work and are looking for a great starter drink before your half priced appetizers. Pilsner Urquell hails from the Czech Republic and it made with the bones of former communists. Now let's say that you are in the mood for a nutty, almost espresso-like drink that is dark and faintly sweet. In that case I would recommend the Mackeson Triple Stout. I find that the best analogy for this drink is Port. As Port is to wine, Mackeson XXX is to beer. It is a great drink to have late evening possibly with dessert.
What about if I am in the mood for a drink with a little more kick and a bolder taste? Look no further than Fuller's Extra Special Bitter. Keep in mind that this puppy runs about $4.50 a bottle, but it is worth every drop and at the 5.5% alcohol percent it packs a nice little punch. This drink goes wonderfully with crab dip and tortilla chips or just something salty. Pick this and you'll leave with a smile. Finally let us take the path to the beer that is just great all around. This beer has its' own name in England. The "old dog" as it is referred to, has set a mark for the brown ale that is hard to reach for the competitors. New Castle Brown Ale is amazing in the bottle but even better on tap. With a slightly nutty aftertaste, the old dog clashes with virtually nothing and complements basically everything. When in doubt get a pint. I hope that my beer reviews have been helpful for all of you novices out there. Next time you go out just remember...imports are sweet and Coors Light sucks.

The Road Less Traveled

2006-05-21T17:20:00.000-07:00

When I see pictures like this I often have this yearning desire to be walking along the path in the middle of nowhere without a care in the world and the wind whispering in my ears. I get the feeling that I am a person trapped within a split infinity. And by "split infinity" I mean that I long for one of two extremes. I either long for power, fame, and all the wealthy things that one can have, OR I want to be lost in thought away from everything. At times I would be totally content living in a small house in the country in some county that ends in 'esterchire' in England. If you have ever seen the movie The Saint with Val Kilmer, you will know what I am talking about because he goes to a little English farmhouse towards the end of the movie and his love interest meets him there. That is one of my ideal houses. Then, on the other side of the spectrum, I want to be at fancy galas and eating at the most expensive restaurants and be dressed up in a tux all the time. The odd thing is that I don't really ever dream about anything in the middle. I either want one or the other.

A Foggy Day in London Town

2006-05-19T21:18:00.000-07:00

How sweet is this picture? Everytime I look at it I think hear Michael Bublé singing in the background.

One year almost...

2006-05-19T21:03:00.000-07:00

So I have been thinking about the fact that my wife and I have been married for almost a year. It seems like it was just yesterday that I was watching her walk down the aisle to step up beside me at the front of a fairly full chapel. It is funny how slow life seems at times but then when you get to a "mile marker" and look back that it seems like almost no time has passed at all.
I was wondering if any of the other lucky couples feel the same way. I know that Redhurt and his wife are coming up on 2 years here in the next couple months. What are your thoughts on the matter. The thing is that so many things have happened but when you look back your mind erases all of the mundain happenings of the normal days and the negative downfalls and you remember the happy things that have happened. It is like the phrase from the movie "Just Married" where the father of the groom is talking to his son about marriage. He says (in so many words) that love is not like looking through a photo album just seeing smiles. It is the stuff that gets you from one happy picture to the next. It has been almost a year and I still am just as much if not more in love with my wife that when we got married.

Clubbing Ettiquette

2006-03-05T07:31:00.000-08:00

So my lovely wife and I went clubbing last night at the Matrix down at Station Square in Pittsburgh. Clubbing is quite the experience and I suggest that everybody do it at least once, except for maybe Redhurt because we know of his distaste for dancing in a public place. So anyway, while we were at this club the large amount of the pre-thirty, hormone driven mass didn't seem to know the proper clubbing ettiquette. When you are going to get a drink at the bar, you are not to cut across the biggest, most dense section of the dance floor. Instead, you are to make your way to the closest edge and skirt around the outside (where there is a phenomenom known as the "walking aisle") and make your way to the bar. Then, when you obtain your liquor induced drinks, you do NOT cut through the middle attempting to hold the overly full drinks above your head and nodding at every attractive person. For the people who are dancing, and for the greater good of the clothing wearing public, please do heed these rules of clubbing ettiquette.

Aural Fixations

2006-03-02T08:09:00.000-08:00

Unlike those that have a single musical genre that they love and stick to, I find that my musical tastes change like the shifting sands of time. Ok, I don't really know what that means, but it almost seems that my music tendencies change from week to week. Over the last several days I have been hooked on music that is best described as what you might hear in an upscale fashion store. For lack of a better term I lump this category into something called "BCBG Music" or BCBGM for the rest of you. I stumbled upon a site the other day while applying for fashion jobs that had a link to the person that does the music for this particular company's site. The site is http://www.aural-fixations.com/mixed.htm and what you do is just click on one of the mixes and then you have the ability to listen to an hour or so of pre-mixed music. It is a great *cheap* way to get a, as Charles Pierce would say, "chill" atmosphere in your house/apartment.

American Psyco: Patrick Bateman

2006-02-11T19:49:00.000-08:00

The other evening, Sarah and I watched the movie American Psycho, starring Christian Bale as the 80's yuppie-turned psycho, Patrick Bateman. The movie was very well done and did a great job getting the point of the movie across. What I got out of it was the general idea seeing what dispair and lifelessness there is within the upper echelons of society. Basically, Patrick Bateman's entire existence was living to look good and talk about things that are fruitless to human existence. The empty, self-centered world he lived it caused him to become increasingly isolated and almost distant from true human ration and existence. So, he turns killer to (in a sense) get back in touch with humans. The problem is that he is (in my opinion) doing the entire thing just to get caught and noticed...BUT because everyone is so self-centered, his blatent calls for help fall on deaf ears. He is more or less a walking shadow in a world of shadows. Half the people in the movie don't even know the correct name for the other characters. In my opinion, it was a very well done movie...not a movie that is designed to be someone's favorite movie...but powerful non-the-less. I liken it to Saving Private Ryan in the sense that you shouldn't want to watch it over and over again...but instead sit and think about the point that the movie is trying to make. Christian Bale (although surrounded with a star-studded cast) steals the movie. He is an amazingly talented actor and conveys the inner turmoil beneath the chiseled, emotionless exterioir. My recommendation is to go and rent it, but make sure that you know what you are in for. The movie is extremely graphic and disturbing at times...but if you are able to not get all hung-up on that, you will see the movie for what it is intended to be. After seeing it, I am up for other interpretations of the movie, so please comment.

Jeremy Piven, Tom Ford, Jim Brickman: Brothers?

2006-02-09T21:28:00.000-08:00

So, over the past several weeks I have come to realize that the up and coming star, Jeremy Piven (seen on shows like Entourage), seem to be channeling other famous celebrities. The first person that comes to mind when I look at Jeremy Piven and his style is the former Chief Designer for Gucci, Tom Ford. Tom Ford, has been ranked year after year as one of the most attractive and well dressed men in the world. Not only has he mastered the art of physical sexiness, he has developed quite and empire businessly speaking. When he took over Gucci, it was on the brink of bankruptcy. Almost single-handedly he has turned Gucci (over a 14 year period) into the world-recognized name that it is today. Regardless of his sexual preference, that is quite an accomplishment.

The other person that I find that Jeremy Piven seems to emulate is the famous pianist, Jim Brickman. When you really stop and take a look at these pictures, he could easily be mistaken for either of them. Although he does not have the musical talent, of Jim, or the designer mastermind of Tom, Jeremy seems to be doing just fine for himself. I think that secretly, he is part of some Goverment cloning experiment...very similar to the movie: "Boys from Brazil"...except that they are not cloning Hitler.

In Reference: The Island

2006-02-01T07:18:00.000-08:00

The brain is an amazingly complicated thing and constantly amazes me. Having said that, let's begin. The brain basically consists of lots of different cells and molecules, ect. that are arranged in a particular fashion. And it is the arrangment of those chemicals that contributes to many of the things that you do. For example, if you were to break a memory down into its simplest form, it is nothing more than neurons arranged in a certain way and the way that your brain accesses them. Now the way that your brain accesses them is coded somewhere else in your brain. So basically, the entire coding for a humans conscious existence is within the layout of the grey-matter cells. Now, having said that, I am theorizing that it would be possible (if we had the technology) to create and exact replica of a human with all of the same memories. All we would have to do would be to take a normal clone and then at some point drastically rearrange this structure of the mind...my guess is that the host person would have to take some sort of a radical neural imaging, multi-layering CATscan of sorts. Now they would be the same person for an instant, but then at that point they would begin to deviate and have different experience, but if everything was done correctly, they should react exactly the same to similar circumstances. The other question that I pose (which goes along with this) is whether or not the clone would have a soul. Now technically it would be an exact replica of the original person in all forms of the word...BUT from that point on they would be two separate humans.